Single Steps Strategies Blog

Take Your Child to Work Day

Although Take Your Child to Work Day is officially April 23rd this year, the current world situation will see that passed over.  But in the spirit of the event, we recognize that for many parents right now, their children are experiencing their workday in their own homes as we shelter in place.  So, you may want to consider a parent/child work activity for that day.

At The Musuneggi Financial Group, LLC, every day is “Take your child to work day”! Mary Grace Musuneggi, Christopher Musuneggi #familybusiness #mfgplanners #tyctwd

Small Business Means Children at the Business

In any case, for those of us who own small businesses, it is likely that your children have been part of your work world from an early age.

I began taking Christopher to my office on weekends when he was about 2 years old and I was doing my job, and all the administrative jobs for my business.  I couldn’t afford staff, and so weekends were days for catch up on filing, organizing, planning and paperwork.

Christopher actually learned the alphabet by watching me sort and file.  He learned some adult expression, such as “besides the fact,” “in addition to”, and “I will be back in touch”, by listening to me on business calls; and somehow knew exactly when to use these.

But as involved as he became in my world as he was growing up, I never anticipated that someday he would join me in my business.  It has been an interesting and rewarding experience for us both.

Years after he and Christine married, she joined our group also.

Our family business has been a joy.

Joys… and Challenges of Family Business

But a family business is not for everyone; as many family business owners can attest. When we hire staff, we tell them that the best thing about working here is that we are family.  So, we celebrate birthdays, holidays; we buy donuts and pizza; we understand family obligations.

The worst thing about working here is that we are family.  Sometimes the obligations, commitments, concerns and disruptions in our family, enter the day to day work life of the business.

So, we have learned that a family business sometimes needs to have even better systems, job descriptions, rules and regulation than other business models, so that everyone is working towards the same goals.  Everyone has the same focus.

We have learned to often use the expression “it’s business, not personal.”

We have learned to step away from the business sometimes, too, so that we continue to share family moments, so that the business does not absorb every aspect of our lives.

And we have learned that in times in our world where we are experience life changing events, that we are both a family and a business that is affected.

Unprecedented Stresses

So, to all the small business owners out there, especially those family owned businesses, we are keenly aware how the current events are creating stresses that you may have never imagined for your business.

To all of you, your families and your employees, we wish you health, safety, and hope.  Hope as we believe this too shall pass.  Hope that you will come out stronger and more prosperous when it does.

– Mary Grace Musuneggi

Not To Do Lists

Have you ever complained that there is just not enough time in the day? Could you use another day in your week or maybe a couple of extra weeks in your year?

“To Do”

Most life coaches will tell you the best way to get control of your time is to have a daily “to do” list. Being a bit obsessive-compulsive, I live off of mine. I always make sure my life has room for personal things – time alone and time with friends, meditation, exercise, and spa visits are all on my “to do” lists. Of course, when career needs arise and family needs call, these go to the back burner. Isn’t that what we women do? We just jump to the occasion. We never quite know how to say “no.”

Or “To Not Do”

The best strategy I have learned for managing my time is to take control of my “to not do” list. There are just things I do not like to do, and saying “no” to them is a blessing. I don’t like to walk the mall. I don’t like to golf. So an invite to do either, even from a good friend, gets a resounding “no.” I don’t like participating in organizations or joining committees that don’t have a strong focus on the things I think benefit me, my family, or my community. So they are on my “to not do” list. I have learned that every request for my time and my resources need not be an affront against my sense of fairness. As a result, I do not need to feel guilty if I say “no.”

This is the Question

So it is alright if we need to say “no” to the request to be the den mother, drive another carpool, cook for the community picnic, build the scenery for the school play, write the office newsletter, or join the card group? Our children will survive and prosper. Our community will survive, too. And, this will leave more time for us to focus on those things we like to do. On those things we want to do. On those people and things we love. You’ve probably heard the saying, “if you want something done ask a busy person,” but remember, that busy person does not always need to be you.

Find Your Answer

Know where your talents lie. Know what you love and what you really want to do. But also know what you don’t know and can’t do. As well as what others can do. I know that there are things that I can do but that I know that others can do easier, faster, and better than I can. So I delegate, saving myself time and energy. Many times, even when I spend money, I save money. I don’t do grass cutting, house painting, car maintenance, or dog grooming. These are at the top of my “to not do” list because talent, expertise, knowledge, and experience are invaluable tools that are worth paying for. And “to not do” these adds hours, days, weeks to my “to do” list.

So as you’re working on tomorrow’s “to do” list, be sure to write “Create To Not Do list” at the top. 

– Mary Grace Musuneggi

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A Man is Not a Plan Book Event

Inspiring Women Authors March 8th 2:00-3:30pm

Mary Grace Musuneggi will be a guest of Lilli Leonardi of Passages and Prose at a special book event on March 8. Mary Grace will discuss her book A Man is Not a Plan and will be with several other authors to celebrate Women’s History Month. 

There is no cost for the event. Event details:

Inspiring Women Authors

March 8, 2020
2:00 – 3:30 pm 

Barnes & Noble
800 Settlers Ridge Road
Pittsburgh, PA 15205

For more information, visit passagesandprose.com